Do I Really Need a Budget?
/Throughout the year, I’m reviewing the top 20 lessons learned from Stan in my book “Your Mortgage Matters” (see last chapter for the list). This week we are on lesson #5. If you don’t have a copy of the book, email me and I’ll send you one.
Lesson #5: Budgeting May be Boring, But it is the Difference Maker
One of John Maxwell’s best quotes ever is “A budget is telling your money where to go instead of wondering where it went.” How many times do you get to the end of the month or year and wonder “where the heck did all the money I made go?” A lack of a budget may be the number one mistake I see my mortgage borrowers make. It is particularly true for the younger crowd, but you’d be shocked at how many middle aged clients I come across that really don’t have a clue how to make their money obey them. It is why people don’t save money, why they run up credit card debt, and too many times, why they wind up behind on payments. And the sad thing is that it is soooo easy! But guess what – it’s also very boring. It’s boring to take time to put pencil to paper to design a budget and it is even more boring living within the constraints of a budget. But for our home buying clients, it is critical.
Surveys have shown that the number one reason that prevents first time homebuyers from being able to buy a home is a lack of money for the down payment. Unless a first time buyer has a nice friend or family member to help them out with a gift, the only way to come up with the down payment is to save. And the only way to save is to get a grip on spending so that saving can take place. How do we do that? We set a budget for every penny we make and we make sure that we only spend money on the things we allocate the money to be spent on – and we make the allocation ahead of time. Getting into that kind of habit before buying can carry over into homeownership. Using the same mindset, we save for things that need to be purchased for the home by budgeting ahead of time versus borrowing to buy.
And it doesn’t have to be boring. Make a game of it. Have contests with friends and family – see who can save more or spend less. Set specific goals of saving for certain things you want to purchase or certain debts you want to pay off. Use Dave Ramsey’s envelope system. Use an on-line tool – especially the ones that you can use on your phone. Or you could even do what I’ve always done, use an Excel spreadsheet. It can be elaborate or simple. Bottom line is that if we want to be successful financially we have to budget. And if we want our home buying clients to be successful as well, we have to encourage them to do the same.